This page has been decorated in loving memory of Kenny Brisby. Kenny was a typical kid.The cars, played baseball, collected baseball cards and traded them for better players, he liked to ride his bike off ramps he and our cousin Jason would make ramps to see how high they could get off the ground and last but not least Saturday morning cartoons. As he got older he matured grew taller than anyone in the family and he was only 16. At 16 he has a job, a car and a girlfriend. He was always really responsable. More than some teenagers his age. When He has some adventure in his face he would not back down. He would do .. whatever it was. Such as jump off a bridge for his wallet, do the bungee jump at the fair, He did more things than anyone in our family, things we would never think of doing. He arm wrestled, was the state champ. He loved to camp and hang out at Bon fire with Tommy and their friends. He loved everything about this life.
Kenny's smile was / is unforgetable,his charm captured you, his laugh stayed with you and you remembered it. Kenny was loved by so many because he was carefree, he loved life and he lived it. I believe deep inside my heart and soul Kenny did was he was supposed to do while he was here.He was/is a great son and that was from day one. He was my brother and protecter when my dad couldnt be there. He was an excellant Uncle to Rosie, scolled her when it was needed. He was a DAMN GOOD FATHER, and he was the bestest friend any guy could ever ask for. We think of him everyday and we will treasure what he gave us while he was here, And that was and still is ..all of his love.
Thanks for all of our memories Briz

http://Kenny-Brisby.virtual-memorials
http://thomas-johnson.memory-of.com
http://www.jeanneshouseofangels.com/Kenny.html

Angels
When you were born, an angel smiled,
As you became a child, an angel sat on your shoulder
When you became an adult, an angel held your hand
As you grew old, an angel walked down the road with you,
And, when you died, another angel got their wings.
--Unknown 

  I wrote your name on the sand...
but the waves washed it away.
I wrote your name on the sky...
but the wind blew it away.
I wrote your name in my heart...
and forever it'll stay.
Author Unknown

Psalms 23:1-6
The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever

         Please light a candle for Kenny
          and if you have any pictures or 
          videos i would be more than happy
            to post them. 
                    Thank you from Kenny's family            
                    

Thank you to all the graphics makers. You have done 
such a wonderful job in makin the graphics for Kenny page. 
My Mom and I are So greatful for all the wonderful things you make
for Kenny. His site is beautiful because of your work. 
So thank you from the bottoms of our hearts.

                                 
Kenny and Tommy RIP
2-19-05

best friends till the end

Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

John 15:13 









     
   




My brother is so handsome...i was/ am so lucky to have had him 
as long as i did... i love you kenny

Nothing can ever take away
The love a heart holds dear.
Fond memories linger every day
Remembrance keeps him near.
Author Unknown

"A Life may last for just a moment....
but memory can make that moment last forever..."
Author Unknown

     Kenny Brisby, 25 of Puyallup died on Saturday February 19, 2005 in Graham. He was born in Finley, WA on March 11, 1979 and lived in Auburn from l988 to 2002 then moved to Puyallup.

Survivors: Parents: Shelly and Dave McSweyn, Auburn, WA Parents: Danny and Orlena Brisby, Finley, WA Daughter: Autumn Eilleen Brisby, Auburn, WA Sisters: Amy Martinez, Federal Way, WA~ : Tandell Brisby, Finley, WA~ : Briana Brisby, Finley, WA ~ Noet Brisby, Finley, WA Brother: Payton Brisby, Finley, WA Grandmother: Jerrie Clark, Tacoma, WA Niece: Rosie Brisby, Auburn, WA

Kenny will be missed by these people and more forever!!!!!


February 19,2005
seems to be FOREVER in time.....

kenny and tommy went out to go duck hunting
they found a duck and shot it.
they tried to get it from the shore of the lake
but they couldnt reach the duck. So kenny went
out on a tree limb to get it and he fell in.
they went to tommys house to change and then
they went over to a family members house for
their canoe. they gave them 2 life jackets
and the canoe. they loaded it up and left.
that was the last time they were seen alive.
they went back the lake to get the duck, and the
canoe capsized and they fell in. the lady above the lake,
heard yelling for help. she then called 911.
by the time the police got there it was dark and you
could not see anything at the lakes shore. but the
next morning police and family members were
down at the lake searching for them.
the first day they started looking
they found the canoe,and 2 life jackets
the life jackets that probably wouldve
saved there lives and kennys cooler filled with soda.
1 and 2 weeks had gone by. and still nothing.
search teams and dogs teams came. they had a hit on
one dog team, but turned out to be nothing. kennys birthday
came and gone (march 11)and then on the
18th(of march ) kenny's body was found....
we were all filled with remorse but releaved.
so since we had found kenny we knew we
couldnt give up on tommy.
come monday morning i get a phone call
"we found tommy"
the living hell we were living for that
whole month was finally over.

and still feels like yesterday


LAKE KAPOWSIN
Febuary of 2005



THE CROSS IN THE LAKE FOR THE BOYS


THE EAGLES THAT NEVER MOVED WHILE THEY WERE SEARCHING FOR THEM.
(THE WATCHERS)


THE GUARDIAN OF LAKE KAPOWSIN
(notice the cross in the middle of his back)


WINTER AT LAKE KAPOWSIN

PICTURES TAKEN BY DIANE PAYNE
PICTURES USED 
WITH PERMISSION






people say
why use these pictures.. your brother died there.
And I would say, this is a place of beauty, thats why he loved it there so much. And he would of had it no other way.




March 11,2007
3rd Birthday in Heaven For Kenny
And a  visitor for the event


picture taken by Diane Payne
used with permission

My Mom Lies
Author Unknown

My Mom, she tells a lot of lies She never did before. From now until she dies, She'll tell a whole lot more.

Ask my Mom how she is And because she can't explain, She will tell a little lie Because she can't describe the pain.

Ask my Mom how she is, She'll say, "I'm alright". If that's the truth, then tell me, why does she cry each night?

Ask my Mom how she is, She seems to cope so well. She didn't have a choice you see nor the strength to yell.

Ask my Mom how she is, "I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping". For God's sake Mom, just tell the truth just say your heart is broken.

She'll love me all her life, I loved her all of mine. But if you ask her how she is, She'll lie and say she's fine.

I am Here in Heaven. I cannot hug from here. If she lies to you don't listen, Hug her and hold her near.

On the day we meet again, We'll smile and I'll be bold. I'll say,You're lucky to get in here, Mom With all the lies you told







A DAD'S GRIEF

It must be very difficult
to be a man in grief
since men don't cry and men are strong
no tears can bring relief.

It must be very difficult
to stand up to the test
and take the calls and visitors
so she can get some rest

They always ask if she's all right
and what she's going through
but seldom take his hand and ask
"My friend, but how are you?"

He hears her crying in the night
and thinks his heart will break
he dries her tears and comforts her
but stays strong for her sake

It must be very difficult to start each day anew
and try to be so very brave
He lost his baby too.

-Anonymous- 







Remembering Them
(in loving memory of Kenny Brisby and Tommy Johnson)

We shall see them in the beauties of the earth In the loveliness of summer sunsets
And in the loneliness of winter winds In the delicate new life of springtime trees
In the blazing glory of falls brigth leaves

We shall see them in the face of youth.
Seeking,strainingfor love and truth
And ion the peaceful face of age
Completing the journey of our days.

We shall see them in the oceans mighty power
We shall see them in the wonders of the stars
We shall see them in the face of happiness and care
WE SHALL SEE THEM EVERYWHERE







I Hurt

I said, God i hurt
And God said, I know

I said, I cry alot
And God said, Thats why i gave you tears

I said, Life is so hard
And God said, that's why i gave you loved ones

I said, But my loved one died!!
And God said, So did mine!!

I said, It's such a great loss!!
And God said, I saw mine nailed to a cross!!

I said, But your loved one lives!!
And God said, So does yours!!

I said, Where is he now??
And God said, My son is by my side
Your Son is in my arms








Memories of Us..
( a letter of memories to Kenny)

i went kennewick for a couple of weeks for my dads birthday... and as always the first day i got there i didnt sleep the whole fisrt night. i wanted to tell my dad happy birthday.. well after he went to work..i layed back down and i left the bedroom window open as i always do, and the weirdest thing happend..
it was like kenny and i were kids again. there is a bird that sits outside on a stump in the front yard and it sings early in the morning, then a breeze came through the window. it was a cool fresh clean breeze that made me relax. it was something kenny loved about being in our home town. fresh and clean smelling. id close my eyes and i could hear him yelling for me.. for us to go out and play or to get into some kinda trouble. then all of a sudden it was all quiet and i felt at peace, i knew he was there with me.. then the bird started chirping again... he loved it at home.. he was always at peace there.
there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about him.
there isnt a second that goes by that i dont miss him. i wish
i could tell him i love him more than anything and hug him
and never let go

I love you Kenny.
Love always your proud sister
Amy K (amis)











Kenny and his Arm Wrestling







Please visit this page.. its a poem for Autumn about her daddy

http://www.homewithgod.com/Cards/themaniwillneverknow.shtml






Some people only dream of Angels,
I held one in my arms.
Author Unknown




A Sadly Missed Son

i've come for a little chat,son
i know that you can hear,
whenever things are difficult
i always come back here.


I tidy around and talk to you
And think about the past,
All those precious moments
Destined not to last.

I feel your eyes upon me
As i turn to walk away,
And that little chat I've had with you
Gets me through another day









A heart of gold stopped beating,
Two shining eyes at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
Little did we know that morning
The sorrow the day would bring.
The end was sudden, the shock severe.
We never knew that death was so near.
When days are sad and lonely,
And evening shadows fall,
We hear your voice and see your face.
Your sweet memory lingers on.
God knew you had to leave us,
But you didn't go alone,
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home 






What Hurts The Most Lyrics 
Rascal Flatts 

I can take the rain on the roof of this empty house
That don't bother me
I can take a few tears now and then
and just let 'em out
I'm not afraid to cry every once in a while
Even though going on with you gone still upsets me
There are days every now and again
I pretend I'm ok, but that's not what gets me

What hurts the most
was being so close
And havin' so much to say
And watchin' you walk away
And never knowin'
What could've been
And not seein' that lovin' you
Is what I was trying to do

It's hard to deal with the pain of losin' you every where I go
But I'm doin' it
It's hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I'm alone
Still harder
Gettin' up, gettin' dressed, livin' with this regret, but I know
If I could do it over
I would trade, give away, show the words that I saved in my heart that I left unspoken
[ Lyrics found on http://www.metrolyrics.com ]


What hurts the most
Is being so close
And havin' so much to say
And watchin' you walk away
And never knowin'
What could've been
And not seein' that lovin' you
Is what I was tryin' to do

Uhh hey yeaaaaaaaaah!

What hurts the most
Was being so close
And havin' so much to say
And watchin' you walk away
And never knowin'
What could've been
And not seein' that lovin' you
Is what I was tryin' to do

Not seeing that loving you
That's what I was trying to do 




I know you lived your lifetime
As short as that seems to me,
But the pain in my heart is still so great,
Yet I know your spirit is free.

At times I think I hear you
The thoughts come to my mind.
I struggle for the sound of your voice,
But your voice I cannot find.

Yet you come to me in many ways
So I know you did not die,
You want to tell me that you’re close,
And to please stop asking Why.

Our lives on earth seem all too brief,
Or brief as it seems to me.
But where you are is forever, 
God calls that Eternity!





Miss You
Daddy if I could have you back
There's nothing I wouldnt do
To hear you laugh
Or even to tell me I'm wrong
There's nothing I wouldnt do
Why did you leave this world so soon?
Leave us all alone
Alone without you
To have you back
There's nothing I wouldnt do
It's so unfair
This world isn't fair
But I want you back
Daddy I need a hug
Need you to wipe the tears away
And there's nothing I wouldnt do




I am now in Heaven,
The gates have opened wide,
And now I have the privilege
Of walking by His side.
The angel choir is singing
And the music is so sweet;
I'll join them just as soon
As I have worshiped at His feet.

I am now in Heaven,
The blood washed throng is here;
I recognize a lot of them,
There's not a single tear.

There's joy beyond description
And reunions by the score;
There'll be no more separations,
For we'll be here evermore.

I am now in Heaven,
Please wipe away your tears;
I've fought the battle, run the race,
And I'm rid of all my fears.

There is no pain or sorrow here,
The heartaches now are past;
I've read and sung of Heaven,
And now I'm here at last!

I am now in Heaven,
And oh, this place is grand!
No one could have ever told me
Of all the beauty in this land.

Since I cannot describe it,
You'll have to come and see
That it was worth the many trials
To live here for all eternity 





Now that I am gone,
remember me with smiles and laughter.
And if you need to cry,
cry with your brother or sister
who walks in grief beside you.
And when you need me,
put your arms around anyone
and give to them what you need to give to me.
There are so many who need so much.
I want to leave you something --
something much better than words or sounds.
Look for me in the people I've known
or helped in some special way.
Let me live in your heart
as well as in your mind.
You can love me most
by letting your love reach out to our loved ones,
by embracing them and living in their love.
Love does not die, people do.
So, when all that's left of me is love,
give me away as best you can.



~ Author unknown











I Still Feel Your Love 
Written by an Unknown Author

I know you’re gone from this earth
You left me way too soon
But I feel your love every time
I gaze up at the moon.
Sometimes I think I hear
A whisper in the wind
It sounds as if you’ve called my name
As your love to me you send.
Sometimes I do a silly thing
And your laughter fills my ears
I know you’re right here with me
But I can’t see you through my tears.
I felt your hand upon my shoulder
And I quickly turned to see
Visible... you were not
But I know you’re here with me.
In the night you sometime come
To visit in my dreams
My hands go out to touch you
But you’re just out of reach it seems.
For just a flash you appear
Standing close to me
Is it just my imagination
Or is it really you I see.
Even though you’re gone from me
And you watch me from above
I long for you everyday…
And I still feel your love.






The Angels 


Did the angels come from heaven
To help you through that morning
Did they feel your terror
And take away your fright
Did the angels bear the pain
That was being done to you
Did they hear your cries of fear
And stay to help you through
Did the angels hold you tightly
The way I would have done
Did they know how I would feel
And wish they were the one
Did the angels cry out loudly
For the unjustness of your plight
Did they call Lord Jesus
And lead you to the light
Did the angels softly kiss your cheek
Before you took your leave
Did they remind you how I loved you so
And forever more I’d grieve
Did the angels whisper in your ear
Don’t worry you will not go alone
Did they know part of me when with you
The day God called you home